Your honeymoon affords you some private time together to rest, relax, and to have tons of sex. Fooling around, making whoopee, watching the submarine races, making love- call it what you will, it’ll never be quite the same as in the first days after getting married. If in addition to spending some “quality time” together you will also take a fabulous cruise or a ski vacation or a trip to the Poconos, that’s great too...but don’t let the vacation part interfere with the “being together” part. Something about pretty glossy ads in bridal magazines can lure couples to do things they’d never consider doing otherwise-like snowboarding or hot-air ballooning. That’s fine; just don’t forget to leave plenty of time for sex. And neither your parents nor your priest will raise an objection, either: you’ll be married.